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Friends. Relationships. Love.

A river at dusk with the lights of a boat on the water

"Genuine Friendship can start to sprout when not expecting or wanting something on purpose from the other."

If you’ve received the gift of a single solid friend to count on, you’re privileged & blessed.

Genuine friendships have to overcome challenges & need proof. We then realize what the stripped situation of this friendship really stood for. It takes some time to fully understand, see clearly with trust when ‘calling another human a friend.’

There are companions for a limited time. They appear intending to disappear from the surface after a certain period. Afterward, we understand more deeply & realize the purpose of this kind of interaction.

Some people one meets for a season, but certain humans YOU meet for a reason.

The longest lasting friendships aren’t always the best. Some old friends, in their youth: "Free Thinkers & Rebels, dressed in fancy leather" mutated into narrow-minded square-heads. Regret, feel embarrassed "For the sins of their youth."

Worn-out human connections lost spark & inspiration. Known another for ages but have grown in different directions & beliefs.

"Falling in love is an easy task COMPARED to keeping love alive."

If man & woman genuinely fit, time proves. As soon as couples live together, have children, challenges of routine and the stressed busyness of daily life need 2be mastered with conscious patience, EQ, inner strength.

Love needs protection; a safe Place without external Influences.

WE been constantly searching for closeness, trust, attraction. A deep desire to be understood, appreciated & admired. To feel loved & respected for one’s lived example of who authentically YOU ARE & Stand For. Regardless of materialism – as humans tend 2attach, are measured by.

We need social life, connections & interactions to realize, learn & understand ourselves – the unique path of your life.

I’ve witnessed married couples & long relationships all my life. I’m always grateful & feel happy for them. Whenever I find one! We should listen attentively to ‘the secrets’ of how they keep their alive!

The way they look at, speak about, listen to each other: Based on undivided attention, appreciation, kindness, empathy & caring. Lived respect for one another!!

A mindset of seeing the partner as an independent human, counterpart with a FREE will and freedom of thought. Doing, giving, thinking and taking equally. To have found the right coordinates to harmony.

It’s mainly about crossing at shared inner intersections without words.

‘One Sees Only What One Knows.’

2Join in: feelings, thoughts, open ‘inside/insight’ wisdom shared, humor, good spirits & vibrations. Shared time for another: broke n’ heart, sad & down, rainy days inclusive.

Friendships & Love – embracing a holistic understanding of love 4 each other as human BEings.

At Best: Love has a Stereo Swing. Mainly Dur than Moll. Major to Minor.

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